SLAY THE BULLY: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win from globally recognized top attorney and high conflict negotiation expert Rebecca Zung, Esq.


Are you struggling with a narcissist in your life professionally or personally? Slay the Bully reveals the simple revolutionary method designed by an attorney who actually understands the psyche of high conflict individuals so you can finally communicate and negotiate with them and get what you want .

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What People Are Saying...

"The magic of Rebecca's SLAY approach to negotiating with narcissists is her depth of understanding of the psychological mind of a narcissist. She seamlessly and efficiently integrates that understanding with her unique insight and skill level in the negotiating process. What Rebecca is offering you here is an opportunity and a path to create a solution for you, and ultimately for your life that will allow you to achieve something incredibly valuable: peace of mind. This is an opportunity. Embrace it.”

-Chris Voss

Former FBI Lead Hostage Negotiator,

CEO of The Black Swan Group,

and Author of Never Split the Difference:

Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It

I’m so excited about this book, Slay the Bully:

How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win! I’m fascinated because of her background as a lawyer.

Her toolbox comes with a lot of efficiencies. Most people talk about narcissists in the abstract. What I love about her work is how she frames things. It's 'How do we drill down on the practical guide?'

-Amy Redford

Film Director

Host of Docuseries The Narcissist Trap

Slay the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win is frickin fire! It is so damn tactical. So when you find yourself in moments where you feel dismissed, maybe you feel anger or shame or any emotion that happens when you're with a narcissist, this book literally gives you every single step that you can take in order to be able to show up, to your damn power back and make sure negotiate like a freaking pro.

-Lisa Bilyeu

Author Radical Confidence

Co Founder & President of Impact Theory

Cofounder Quest Nutrition

SLAY the Bully is a complete game changer! This book not only plunges into the minds of how narcissists think, reaching deep into their psyches, and pulling back the curtain on their personas, but also provides a real roadmap, complete with easy to follow strategies and tactics, to achieve the winning result you want when negotiating with a narcissist.

-Jon Gordon

Best-selling author of The Energy Bus and

The Power of Positive Leadership

Narcissists big and small cause countless problems and toxicity that never ends. Here at last is a wisely brilliant lady and my friend, Rebecca Zung, who shares with us how to successfully confront and navigate through this seemingly intractable problem.

-Mark Victor Hansen

New York Times Bestselling Author,

Founder and Co-Creator Chicken Soup for the Soul Series

When it comes to negotiation, confidence is critical. Rebecca has a powerful methodology that not only provides readers with the practical skills needed for success, but equips them with the tools for building the confidence to apply those skills when the stakes are high. By rooting her approach in foundational psychological concepts, she is helping millions of people advocate for themselves against the most difficult of personalities and enhance their sense of self-worth, all while negotiating for the things they want most. This book is a must-read for anyone ready to achieve new levels of success and empowerment.

-Kwame Christian, Esq.

Founder, American Negotiation Institute Host,

Negotiate Anything Podcast Author,

Finding Confidence in Conflict

SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win

Table of Contents


Chapter 1:

Welcome to Hell

Chapter 2:

: Your Soul’s Scream for Help 

Chapter 3:

Flying Monkeys, Gaslighting, Word Salad, and More (a.k.a. Methods Narcissists Use to Destabilize You and Take Control) 

Chapter 4:

SLAY: Your Get Out of Hell Free Card

Chapter 5:

S: Strategy: A Strong Foundation Equals Breakthrough Results   

Chapter 6:

L: Leverage, a.k.a. The Magic Bullet

Chapter 7:

A: Anticipate What the Narcissists Are Going to Do, and Be Two Steps Ahead of Them 

Chapter 8:

Y: You on the Offensive, and Your Powerful Mindset 

Chapter 9:

That Dragon Is So F*cked

Chapter 10:

SLAYer for Life

“So What Do I Do Now?”

SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win: Key Ideas at a Glance

ABOUT The Book

Every person needs to feel more powerful when it comes to negotiating with narcissists. Yet, after working with hundreds of clients herself and seeing this over and over again, we know that everyone feels that they simply can't win when it comes to dealing with high conflict personalities. Until now...

When dealing with narcissistic individuals everyone feels like giving up.... sometimes before they even start negotiating. You just feel like you can't win!

You feel hopeless, powerless - like the narcissist always get their way and you end up feeling used and abused.

You feel like the life is drained out of you - totally and utterly exhausted.

Rebecca Zung knows all about helping people negotiating with narcissists. After twenty years of representing people against them and dealing with them in her personal life, she has a deep understanding of their psyche, and developed a simple step by step revolutionary proven method for achieving the results you want, without backlash.

In SLAY the Bully, Rebecca Zung, shares key tips and strategies that will help anyone trying to negotiate or communicate with narcissists to immediately shift the power dynamic. This book will help you to:

  • - Stop allowing the narcissist from holding their agenda over you

  • - Overcome their constantly gaslighting and manipulation tactics

  • - Learn how to create leverage so narcissists will be motivated to want to resolve issues with you

  • - Use the simple process to achieve the results you want to get your power back

  • - Experience the respect and acknowledgement you deserve

  • - Finally break free and take back your life

A Message from Rebecca Zung

I can tell you this firsthand. A few years ago, I decided to enter into a small entrepreneurial endeavor myself. That endeavor ended up costing me so much more than money.

While I had already practiced in the area of high net worth divorce law for nearly two decades at that point, and had certainly dealt with narcissists, and had even been a celebrated master negotiator, I had never dealt with personally being the target of a covert narcissist. It ended up to be one of the worst, most traumatic nightmares of my life.

And that is lead me to developing this process and writing this book.

Now, I personally know the drama, trauma and chaos they cause. One day, I was at the top of a mountain on vacation with my family and I realized I was thinking about the narcissist instead of enjoying my time with my loved ones. It was then and there that I realized that if I allowed the narcissist into my thoughts and my life that I was allowing myself to be a victim, not a victor.

This was NOT how I was going to let the story end.

I came down from that mountain and finished my negotiation book, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win. I got out of that business relationship and I have never looked back. My life has taken off since then.

Every day now, I remember to defend my light with my life, and I also get to help YOU guys do the same thing. I get messages all day every day from people like this:

"You have helped me so much these last few weeks. I was with a narcissist for years she drove to the point I wanted to take my own life. Listening to you has made a massive difference and now I know what I'm dealing with. Thank you Rebecca. Now the recovery."


I get literally thousands of those types of messages a month.

That is what gives me purpose.

That is my WHY.

So if you're feeling powerless, like you're in hell, like nothing is ever good enough, or you're feeling exhausted; like your soul is being sucked from your body then this book is for you.

If any of this resonates with you, or if you have any of those same feelings, or challenges, or struggles, or hopes or dreams, I want to openly extend an invitation to you to Pre-order this book.

It will make a positive difference in your life and/or business!

I wrote this book so you don't have to live under the narcissist's cloud anymore...

...for you so that you have the tools and the step by step  program.

...so they can't hold their agenda in life over you any more.

You deserve to enjoy to your life, your family, your business

The things you pour your heart and soul into.  

This book will show you step you step. 

You can win. 

About Rebecca Zung, Esq.

Rebecca Zung is one of the Top 1% of attorneys in the nation, having been recognized by U.S. News one of the Best Lawyers in America.  She’s also a globally recognized Narcissism Negotiation Expert (more than 40 MILLION VIEWS on YouTube in 3 years) and the creator of the SLAY® negotiation method.  She is the author of TWO bestselling books, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.:  The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword by Robert Shapiro) and Breaking Free: A Step-by-Step Divorce Guide for Achieving Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Freedom. 

Rebecca’s  perspectives are in high demand by television and print outlets, as she has been featured in or on Extra, Forbes, Huffington Post, Newsweek, Time, Dr. Drew, Ed Mylett’s Podcast among others.   Rebecca’s podcast, Negotiate Your Best Life is ranked in the top .5% of all podcasts globally.  She, along with In-N-Out Burger owner, Lynsi Snyder Ellingson, is also the founder of a 501c3, Slay Legal Aid, which provides legal aid to those in need.

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